Chapter 25: Punishment for more serious faults
None of the community should associate with or talk to the guilty person, who is to persevere alone and in sorrow and penance in whatever work has been allotted, remembering St. Paul's fearful judgement when he wrote to the Corinthians that: such a one should be handed over for the destruction of the flesh so that the spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord. (From Ch. 25 of Saint Benedict's Rule, trans. by Patrick Barry, OSB, 1997.)
Sorrow and penance, St. Benedict tells me, are appropriate consequences if I harm community. Solitude may be necessary for me to refocus on the preciousness and necessity of relationship. A vision of oneness in Christ is what allows me genuine re-communication.