Chapter 71: Mutual obedience in the monastery

Any monk or nun who is corrected for anything by abbot or abbess or one of the seniors and perceives that the senior is upset by feelings of anger, even though thy may be well in control, then that junior should at once prostrate on the ground in contrition and not move until the senior gives a blessing which will heal the upset. (From para. 2 of Ch. 71 of Saint Benedict's Rule, trans. by Patrick Barry, OSB, 1997.)


Mutual obedience will "heal the upset". As in many human encounters, it's not clear to me that one person is completely right, and the other completely wrong, but the community order holds true. Everyone must be obedient to making the necessary gesture of forgiveness. Perhaps I am to learn that a spirit of mutual obedience ensures a spirit of mutual forgiveness.